Too Many Advises a Headache

There are varieties of headaches in our lives. One of them includes the advises section we become used to. The advises are a headache because sometimes we don’t achieve them or sometimes we feel literally bored acting upon them. We end up becoming more confused of what to do and what not to. As it happens with me often times, to keep my loved ones happy with their suggestions for me, I follow their advises. At times, I am making myself look like a conservative girl by wearing their suggestions, at times I am looking for something better to eat when I cook their choices and at times I am studying a subject of their choices and reaching the deepest levels of boredom of life.

I am not saying that everyone is bored of advises. It is a phase in everyone’s life when we don’t want advises. We want to do what we want to do. Must, must not, should and should not bores us to sitting in front of tv 24/7. The way maths, science, computer science and anything like this bores me more the same way things you don’t like in this phase might bore us more, irritate us more than usual times and to cure this, just do what you want to do.

It does not affect me so much because of the moderate and good family and people around me. It does affect many fellows dangerously in their life leading to very serious problems in their life. For example, many are advised to (read: told to) from selecting a subject as a major or optional to selecting a life a partner. Narrow mindedness of the conservatives affect the youth excessively. The youth is at times told to follow the usages that are 1000 years old or are out of fashion leading to their embarrassment and feeling of depression in their life. It depends upon person to person how they take a usage or tradition; but imposing them might derange the individuals only. These depressions, embarassments and impositions are reasons of failures of youth at extent.

From the days of my school and college, I had seen many girls only doing what their parents or guardians (brothers) are expecting them to do. They had 0.00% of themselves in things they act upon. It is indeed a big crime to impose things on an individual and killing their favorites, desires, wants and might their talent that way.

Too many advises does have a positive side but that is very little. Too many advises can be very guarding but misleading too. Too many advises are a headache which can not be escaped from or erased from life itself.


I Am Naveeda Shaikh

I am Naveeda Shaikh. I am a very ordinary person. I live a very ordinary life. I try to be good at things I like to do for myself and for people I love. At times, I feel depressed like there is nothing to live for. At times, I feel like a blooming flower ready to shine my world. At times, I am too excited. At times, I am very much nervous. At times, I am too confident to let any perception of any other person affect me. And this is me all the time.

I reckon friends are lifeline to life. If you have gathered a thousand achievements in life without friends, you have achieved materialistic goals and had missed all the exciting though sometimes nostalgic fun which friends bring in with emotions and great positive vibes. Friends convey us true meaning of life. I have my girlfriends who make me feel special at times, who cross a big and wide smile on my face with their one text, one come by, one phone call and one hug. Being felt special in life is a gift which friends can give better than any other thing.

Avoidance of negativity in life is quite inevitable. We all have to go throw them; deal with them. We all have to at one time or another feel the least to praise the most. There is a lot of negativity in life which depresses us. In order to remain positive all the time, we should not ignore the negating thoughts. We should deal with them, make our way through it by sharing them the person we trust and reach another level of patience and good being. By ignoring and escapism, we only worsen our ability to continue being happy.

World is the most beautiful place to live in. I love rains very much. I love the earthy scent when rain falls on dry soil. I love rainbows when it had rained. I owe to travel the world, gather a lot of beautiful clicks of dry, wet, icy and green lands, and learn hello in different languages.

I am a law student. Law is very dry subject to study and keep as profession. The question comes to my mind why I have thought to keep it as my profession. Then, the answer sometimes is vivid and sometimes is ambiguous because I have not completed law yet.

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